Are Gals Complicated N Guys Clueless !??

One of my friends said GIRLS ARE TOO COMPLICATED TO UNDERSTAND !!!! He went on….saying ..they r like math , they r always confused particularly when it comes to relationships . They think n act completely different for us!
I retorted saying we r not complicated.. we only seem complicated when people dont listen to what we say.. u jst have to try understanding us n most guys r not willing to do tat … so its all !!

The argument heated up….n he drove it ahead telling .. Y do girls think tat putting up some air of mystery is a good thing? "You can't understand us, we r too complex.".. Y wd u want to b more complex than guys? Is there some kinda competition here tat u didn't tell us about? And what do u get if u win ... guys avoiding u?

Well i said..Nobody is complicated. Even math n science r complicated.. but we understand them with a bit of workin around.. girls r not complicated.. its jst tat everybody wants to understand everything at d first go n tats what makes them think they r complicated.....u jst gotta be smooth n stay tuned for quite some time...

He accounted bak articulating.. I will no more try to understand gals n what they want from a guy? Finally he disclosed d words of his heart …n narrated me ..

Since one year until some weeks back… I was going out with a girl. So I said to myself,Now I’ll try my best to understand my girlfriend. She was a decent girl n I thought she wanted a good guy. I did all on earth to be a good person, a good n loving guy. I would be there when she needed me on MSN Messenger, I would send her d most loving n sincere words by mail. I would make sure to be there when she needed me. I tried my very best : being sincere, being the one she wanted me to be. In fact everytime I changed myself in accordance to what she would be wanting from me. Just to make her happy. That really depressed me coz I tried everything to understand her but couldn’t. Then some weeks back, I could no more…. I pull the plug off and told her I’m going away. I don’t know what? What girls really want from us ??

Guys should be gals to really know who they are. That’s why there’s no way to understand them and why I gave up trying to understand them n I feel better now because I gave up trying to understand girls.

Are gals really tat complicated? This isnt quite knotty n not an unending conundrum …

Man/Woman control panel.This is from a guy's perspective ..Its really hillarious !! Don't u jst hate graphics like this??


But seriously though, there r different gals as well as different guys, some r smarter, some r less smart, I don't think we r really all tat complicated ..however, it's nice to have the 'female logic!' excuse for almost any illogical statements u make :P

It's all too complicated

To explain in a verse

It'll take many to explain

What i gotta say….

For Guys,Gals r always complicated

Never make up their mind

They confuse u to hell

Even when u think they're one of a kind

For Gals,Guys r always complicated

Doesn't matter how u look at it

They betray ur friendship
And give u nothing….

Everything in life is complicated

U'll notice over d days

U’ve got too many problems

And many people who annoy....

Apparently, females tend to have a larger corpus callosum than males,which is a part of d brain which connects d two hemispheres. Females r more able to balance d emotional n logical sides of their brain. Males only tend to see things in black or white.

Well well .. unlike boys .. I say tat one can understand gals ..A gal only wants attention, care n a pinch of love frm a guy. Gals r not complicated to understand...Give them time, they will return to u lil later if they really like u :P

If u r trying too hard to please them, forgetting to b who u really r…then its totally incorrect. Be urself n if they don’t like tat then they r not for you anyway. Sooner or later u’ll find someone who wants u n not d imaginary person whom u think they want.

All I wanna say is….Guys n Gals need to have their own space to maintain their masculinity n femininity respectively.

Getting anger over someone of opp gender, pondering.. U see things vertically n he does the same horizontally n then getting in to arguments n taking offense , is not the most effective thing to focus on. It's like focusing on things that doesn't matter.

What does matter is ..how guys n gals treat each other n when made an error in judgment, recognize it n commit to do better.Guys n Gals constitute a "whole" when working in harmony.U cant appreciate dark without light, up without down, inner without outer, brutality without tenderness.

‘He’ is d engine with d raw horsepower n ‘She’ is the microprocessor that keeps it all working to maximum efficiency.Neither is better, but both r complimentary n necessary for balance.

Get to know d person of d opposite gender n appreciate him/her for their unique strengths.

Now lets pin our ears to d fabulous trak...Boys like girls -The Great Escape :)

POVERTY, A cause….A journey with no applause!

Today, we live wid more awareness n concern abt global poverty than @ any time in our world's history. More than ever, people can see or read abt swollen stomachs of hungry children.

It is d very improvement in d economic well being of hundreds of millions of people tat raised d world's consciousness abt poverty n inequality. Until a few hundred years ago, almost everyone experienced material poverty. Few saw themselves as poor relative to their neighbors n hardly any were comfortable enough to worry whether other people had enough food, clothing n shelter. Rising incomes created d large middle classes tat could worry abt d hungry n expose d poor to wat 'ey lacked. In addition, economic growth n technological change fueled d expansion n accessibility of mass communication tat makes poverty n income disparities readily observable not only in d rich countries but in many poor countries as well.

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This growing recognition of world poverty n inequality is significant, but so too r questions abt d realities of material hardships n material wealth. Wat are today's levels of poverty n inequality? Are 'ey increasing or decreasing? Answering these questions is a complicated task, though far less complex than determining d causes of poverty n inequality n d effects of domestic n international policies.

Life is sweet to some

To others ,it is sour..

Yet many lie in pain

And others gaze in disdain

Poverty comes with its gain

And wealth also its pain

Turn ur heart, oh dear one!

Wipe the tears of my beloved

For we all r one

United with the string of life

Help the dying poor

Help the thirsty one !!

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U never know

Who u reach out to today

May help u too the next day….

Here's a poem dedicated to all the destituted children n guttersnipes..

Oh lil gal !!!! dont look at me,

with those docile feeble eyes,

Don't stretch ur hands,

For a few pennies n compassion from me....

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Don’t let ur parents teach u,

How to beg in front of the wealthy,

How to pick food from the bins,

And how to exert urself to survive on this land.

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Impulse ur hand to hold a pen,

And revitalize ur future with it!!
Elevate ur voice, not to plead for money,

But to claim for education!!

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Don’t let ur past dictate ur future,

U were not born to survive amid dust n dirt.

Y do u need sympathy at all??

When even cripple live a decent living.

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Fight for urself,fight for all those,

Who r victims of hunger n poverty.

Fight against those who dishonor ur hopes n dreams,

U have every starboard to Happiness, Freedom n Education.

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TEACH WITH YOUR "HEART"....To make a way for Freedom Writers

Freedom Writers based on the best selling book “ The Freedom Writers Dairy “ by 150 teen freedom writers wid Erin Gruwell . As an idealistic twenty-three-year-old English teacher at Wilson High School in Long beach, California, Erin Gruwell confronted a room of “unteachable, at-risk” students. One day she intercepted a note with an ugly racial caricature, n angrily declared tat this was precisely the sort of thing tat led to d Holocaust—only to be met by uncomprehending looks. So she n her students, using d treasured books Anne Frank: The Diary of a Young Girl n few more as their guides, undertook a life-changing, eye-opening, spirit-raising odyssey against intolerance n misunderstanding. They learned to see d parallels in these books to their own lives, recording their thoughts n feelings in diaries n dubbing themselves the “Freedom Writers” in homage to d civil rights activists ..

Freedom Writers stars Academy Award winner Hilary Swank as Erin Gruwell, the impossibly naive and fresh-faced white girl from a wealthy Southern California suburb who wants to make a difference in d world by teaching in a gang zone . Initially, she fails to command d respect from these kids, who can’t see how education is goinna help ‘em in their lives mired in violence. But after Gruwell catches d students passing around a racially derogatory drawing, she starts to get real with 'em n finds a way to start teaching ‘em things 'ey really need to know..

The script was written and directed by Richard LaGravense n his decision to present d violence these kids endure , stands him in gud stead. The movie opens with disturbing footage from d LA riots, moves swiftly to a gang killing, and repeatedly immerses u in harsh slices of the kids’ lives. By doing so, LaGravanese earns d power of Grunell’s impact.. rather than just showing us teenagers in colored baggy pants wid bad attitude .

Erin's love for these "loser" kids helps them to, first, love themselves, then love their "enemy" classmates, and, finally, love n cherish d opportunity 'ey have to rise above their circumstances .

She really inhabits d role of tirelessly optimistic n dedicated Erin Gruwell right down to her pearl necklace and peppy sweater. The supporting cast all do their parts well. And d trauma the kids endure n the extent to which Gruwell goes to help ‘em r all pretty impressive!!

It’s a film wid many touching moments.But d one tat hit me hard, was a quote from one of d class’s staunchest kids. When he was asked as “what he dared to hope ?“…his retort was … “To be eighteen.”

It’s not a smooth picture n it certainly has its faults, but wid such strong performances n a tear jerking message, the heart of d matter comes barreling through its rickety structure.

Watch the Trailer :

I saw almost similar class room atmosphere @ Barringer High school ,park ave, NJ where i used to tutor 11th n 12th grade students in math. Many of ‘em were in to gangs, their behavior in d class n attitude towards life was pathetic.

Though the school administration carried out many programs to bring in some change among ‘em …by conducting presentations abt gang awareness n other activities….but I can say none of these programs dint give any positive outcome ..the dirty one’s remain d same .. I used to ponder as Y the Federal govt of US is spending millions of dollars for these “loser” kids, who can never change ??

I got to watch this movie a couple of months ago n it really had a major influence on me … Then I realized tat each n every one of ‘em had an odyssey of their own..n a reason for ‘em being so ….Basically many of ‘em r homeless or their parents r involved in crimes..n many of ‘em r brought up wid an outlook tat being in gangs would give ‘em fame n wealth instead of studying which may not give ‘em all tat..

It’s not d first good inspirational film in d realm of urban education: “Stand and Deliver,” “Coach Carter” to name a few! But its quite deserving of ur interest. The way she tried to bring ‘em across the bridge n teach ‘em tat education is a gr8 liberating force n wil equalize d playing field by making ‘em pen down d words to leap off the page abt their experiences. I strongly feel , it should b for use in d class.

The theme these kids carry is awe-inspiring !! It's titled "I have a Dream " n it goes this way ...

I got a dream

[One day]

We gonna work it out oh oh

We gonna work it out oh oh

We gonna work it out..

I got a dream

tat one day

all of the people n myself

r gonna find a better way

My dream is to b free

my dream is to b free...

A search for brighter days

I ride thru d maze of d madness

struggle is my address

where pain n crack lives

gunshots coming from sounds of blackness

given this game with no time to practice

Born on d blacklist

told I'm a little average

A life with no cabbage

that's no money

if you're from where I'm from

funny,

I just want some of urs son

dark clouds seem to follow me

I walk wid a boulder on my shoulder

it's a cold war

I'm a colder shoulder

I fight d same fight tat made Martin Luther, the king

I ain't usin' it for the right thingin-Between lean n d fiends

hustle n d schemes..

I put together pieces of a dream

I still have one

I am happy.I am happy

I got a dream[One day]

We gonna work it out oh oh

We gonna work it out oh oh

We gonna work it out

Finally kudos to the director for taking this to the screen with gritted teeth n determination to teach something worthwhile ..

In this passionate, poignant, and deeply personal memoir, On a journey through the emotional peaks and valleys on the front lines of our nation’s educational system …“Teach with Your Heart” is the only commitment to awaken personal power in students n ppl ...n a remarkable ability to encourage others to follow in ur footsteps to ensure that education in the United States truly meets the needs of every student....

Your Generosity can make Someone's Day!

On june 12,'07....We were getting back home after havin a luncheion @ my frds place. On our way back ..we were stuck @ Panjagutta crossroads, Hyd. A lil gal ,dressed up scruffily, knocked on my window n broke in to simper. I smirked bak at her..She wanted some money in exchange to beautiful scenic posters tat she was selling. I asked her, “how much?” she replied, “five rupees”. I was lookin for 5 rupees in my wallet n asked my brother if he had 'em. He didn’t have 'em either. I had a 20 rupee bill n i handed it over to the gal. She wanted to give bak the remaining amount to me. Meanwhile the traffic signal showed up green n we had to raise the gear n drive ahead..

After few mins , we were again struck at the nxt immediate signal .....And we were surprised to see the gal ,when she knocked our window again . she took a deep breath n smiled ..then she said u dint take bak ur change. i was flabergasted as she made it to us by runnin along the car..I asked her to keep the change as i was moved by the pain she took to reach us jst to give bak the balance amount . I wasn’t going to lose anything by being a lil magnanimous. In fact the gals face lightened up when I asked her to keep the change. My dad would have been happy to know that his 15 rupees went for a meaningful cause instead of spendin 'em for my junk food or smthg . ...... All i can say is " Being generos can make someone’s day. "

That 'smile 'of the lil gal touched me ...n made me feel tat i must n its my responsibility to help someone in a small or big way if i get a chance to ....

I was in to small social service kinda activities from my skool days ..

When I was in Rosary Convent , Hyd. I was an active member in the social service club n we were working for "Divya Disha Organisation" .They provide services for many homeless children, rag pickers, child labour . Our part was to make simple poster prestentations n throwin light on few issues in society wid 'em n also teach 'em simple math . We used to visit their place once or twice in a month ..I can tell u tat all these children want is someone to come up to 'em , talk to 'em about their lives ..as hw they r ? wat they do ? jst b nice wid 'em ....they dont expect huge amounts of currency from us. ..I remember playin wid 'em dumbsharats n other small games .. n listening to their experiences.... Truly speaking , We used to enjoy those few hours of interaction wid 'em . I can tell u tat many of 'em were bright students n quick learners.

There are many lil things tat we can do to make this world a much more beautiful place for everyone to live in. So lets all take initiative to do something atleast wid in our reach to help d needy from this moment ..n help in generating million watt smiles on their faces ...

BEAU....Boyfriend ????

For cracked rationale , ppl keep mullin over tat i've a boyfriend ! Where in d inferno did 'ey get tat !!!??? ppl ask me " u'r 21 yrs old, pretty,smart... y r u stil single !???? Y don't u have a boyfriend??"

I thought abt it for a while..may b my crons r right..may be its really time for me to have one....
All my life... i’ve been believing tat 20+ yrs of age is the perfect age to get entangled with someone.. earnestly !! But againnn...I rely on someother principles ....

The brain wave for me havin faith tat this age is perfect! .. is that u'l b in ur prime , an independent grownup, someone who’s gettin on to b responsible for the choices u make n the actions u take. When u r producin ur own livelihood., u can retort to nyone who points @ ur do's n dont's. Also ., ur accountability of following the procedures/guidelines laid down by the parents also ease up then .This is the pretext as Y i've been single n probably don’t regret for it !!

The reason my heart probably agrees with my mind tat ’m happy single is that may b I haven’t found the perfect guy yet!!!! I’ve got some really gud guys as friends .. Amazing ppl with very interesting mentalities.., I have Lotsa * 4 Kicks with 'em ..It has always been about fun., fights n other stuff.Life is fun...but we do need some seriousness to balance it out.
I surmise u can know somebody really well , when they r not frivlous.., in the sense., not foolin around, flirtin n jokin kinda stuff. Well.., that ., I dont have in my life. Sounds strange that someone is missing out 'no rollic' moments ! :D

But its true!! Well..’m not ‘into’ the boyfriend/ girlfriend kinda stuff . I sincerely believe tat unless some earnest understanding n bonding r present...the alliance cannot b a success !Another thing tats perturbin me is.... Wat if I've found the perfect guy., but according to my above stated 'principles' ..Do i've to still pause for sometime?? But againnn.. 'm timorous ....might miss him., Wat if things don't work out well in the cards., these themes scare me.., but there's nothing tat i can do abt it !

Life flows like tat.... n 'm Cheerful wid wat 'm n i've :)

Happy B-day Chandi !!

Hey !! its koti's b-day !!!!

Well.. he calls himself ...."Pretty!!!!Attractive!!! Appealing!!! Sweet!!! Good-looking!!! Charming!!! Glamorous!!! Beautiful!!! Eye- catching!!! Smart!!! Striking!!! Fascinating!!! Bubbly!!! Sparkling!!! Full of life!!! ...Good-natured!!! Great!!! Amazing!!! Tremendous!!! Elegant!!! Fashionable!!! Well-groomed!!! Stylish!!! Neat!!! Graceful!!! Pleasing to Eye!!! Bonafide!!! Rarity!!! SweeTo0o00o0 ".........its a LonG List rite ?? but none of them holds gud for him :D
All i can say about him .... He's a total "FOODIE " n a "PUNK "..he can eat any amount of food @ any time :P

There's an interesting anecdote for him to be named "Koti" which only our crew members r aware of ..hehe n well thrs another yarn for me being called Boochi by him ... n i truly luv being called Boochi only by Kotii :D

Jokes apart..Lets all wish for this dude on his birthday ....






Comfort on difficult days,
Smiles when sadness intrudes,
Rainbows to follow the clouds,

Laughter to kiss your lips,
Sunsets to warm you heart,
Gentle hugs when spirits sag,

Friendship to brighten your being,
Beauty for your eyes to see,
Confidence for when you doubt,

Faith so you can believe,
Courage to know yourself,
Patience to accept the truth,
And love to complete your life.

Happy Birthday Kotiiii !
Have a Blast !!
I wish all ur dreams come true..

The day is as special as you allow it to be... Parties, gifts and celebrations don't really count for much in the long run - it's the importance you imbue and the meaning that you find that matter. so dont expect any lagniappe's/gifts from me n 'm awaiting for u to cum bak here n throw me a b'day Jamboree :D

From ur Boochi :)

Memories..College ke din !!

Remembering my class mates,

after few years,my eyes were filled with tears..

Everyone is now busy a lot,
No one escaped destiny's plot.

Project reviews to campus interviews,

Nicknames to last bench games,
Cultural rehearsels to love proposals,

short term crushes to class room blushes..

Everything is fresh in our mind,

Wish life could just rewind.

Let's laugh, play and rejoice.

Once again and become college students.

Chatting and laughing.

We all were in elation.

Till the painful moment of seperation..

When it was time to part.

We returned with a heavy heart.

Today,life is full of commitments.

And too many worries.

But those cherished moments....

Will live forever in our memories!!

I miss those good old days....,
...., when it was nothing but fun..


Yeh Degree bhi lelo, Yeh Naukri bhi lelo,
Bhale mujhse lelo woh US ka Visa,
Magar mujhko lauta do college ke din !!

Woh TeeKha Samosaa, Woh tanda saaa paani,
Woh project ki Khatir , tho dar dar bhataknaa ,
Woh lecture mein , doston ki proxy lagaanaa,
Woh sir ko chidana, aeroplane udaanaa,
Woh submission ki raton ,ko jagna jagaanaa,
Woh doosron ka assignment , ko apnaa banana,
Woh seminar ke din , pairon ka chat-patanaa,
Woh workshop mein din bhar , pasinaa bahanaa,
Phir Exam ke din ko , tho bechain hona..

College ki thi ..woh lambi si raatein,
Bhulaaye nahin bhool sakta hai koi......
Woh college, woh baatein, woh guzara jamana..
Mujhko lauto do college ke din !!

F.R.I.E.N.D....SHIP :))

There's nothing as nice as someone who shares,

Your laughter, your secrets, your wishes and cares,

someone who's there through your good times and tears,

who stays by your side as your friend through the years....

Hmmm..finally lemme sumup ..

“ A FRIEND IS SOMEONE WHO KNOWS THE SONG IN UR HEART AND CAN SING IT BACK TO U WHEN U ‘VE FORGOTTEN THE WORDS “

It takes more than caring

To be a real friend;

The nature of friendship;

Requires a blend

of warmest compassion

And love deep and true

To reach and to comfort

The way that u do.

Frienship..

Word that rules the world,

More precious than gold.

Like an ocean, Depth matters,

Deeper the depth. Sweeter is life,

Like a mountain, altitude accounts,

Higher the affection, Happier is life.

Can't be taught, Can't be bought,

Must be felt, Must be offered,

Based on trust, Its really the Best!!

This is for all my frds .. (n yeah ! these poiesies r not copied )